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Comment on The evolution of my want list by Brooke

Brooke — Thu, 17 May 2012 17:54:26 +0000

Um…yes. And it’s definitely not helping that I’m addicted to building things! I have about fifty pins for dollhouses, kid-sized tables and chairs, a play kitchen, toddler picnic tables, a high chair, doll furniture… I could go on all day! I just spent all my blog revenue for the month on adorable fabrics to sew Charlie a new duvet. While the hubs saves up to buy guns and hunting trips! Oy vey. At least we’re not alone!

Comment on The evolution of my want list by Diana

Diana — Thu, 17 May 2012 15:37:16 +0000

It is the same way in our family. I want a toy box to organize Logan’s toys, a train table or a regular toddler table with chair for him to play at, a sand box, an eventually a skuut bike for him. My husband’s wants are centered around landscaping and gardening, as well as a few house projects. I think this is a normal trend though. I don’t worry too much about it as long as we both get some of the things we want.

Comment on Back on the budget wagon by Marisa

Marisa — Thu, 17 May 2012 13:50:25 +0000

@cartascartas, Join the club! It is a strange role, because so much of who we are is defined by our gender, but so much of what we do isn't anymore. So, I'm the bacon-bringer but when my kid is sick, I'm the mama so I want to be home with him. I don't think men have that deep need to hold their babies when the kiddo is sick (not as much, anyway) so the new roles can be tough then.

Comment on Back on the budget wagon by Marisa

Marisa — Thu, 17 May 2012 13:48:57 +0000

@Jess G, Anytime! I really do know quite a few women in that role, both at work and among friends.

Comment on Back on the budget wagon by cartascartas

cartascartas — Wed, 16 May 2012 15:59:59 +0000

I also feel that way sometimes, as we consider making the necessary changes so that my husband can find his dreams. I need to make friends with your friends! (Also, hi Jess G!). I sometimes feel very lost what feels like a strange role.

And! I am also the family CFO, and share that need to be at least in some kind of control of the finances to feel secure. Times are a-changin’ indeed.

Comment on Back on the budget wagon by Jess G

Jess G — Wed, 16 May 2012 14:48:56 +0000

It made me giggle a little when you said you know some women who bring home the bacon while hubs find their dreams. I feel like I am the only one in this situation 99% of the time, because out of my friends, I AM the only one. Thanks for making this journey a bit less lonely

Comment on The mother ship is calling by Marisa

Marisa — Tue, 15 May 2012 23:06:17 +0000

@Maggie, I know, I'm not sure. I can ride it out until the end, I'm sure, or I can start looking now. Both options make me sad (isn't that sad?).

Comment on The mother ship is calling by Maggie

Maggie — Tue, 15 May 2012 22:23:11 +0000

I see. Is there any interest in hoping on the ship now or waiting for more danger? Are any of the ships near family? It’s hard because you have a life and family where you are currently with a support structure for Javi in place. On the other hand, you are the main breadwinner so maintaining your income in this economy is paramount.

I suck in that I don’t have much I can add but I’m sure you and your family will make the right decision.

Comment on The mother ship is calling by Marisa

Marisa — Tue, 15 May 2012 21:02:37 +0000

@Maggie, Yes, there are multiple mother ships and I can get hired at non-Seattle ones if I start looking. No, the mother ship hasn't called, but I don't want to be the last one on it if it sinks, ya know?

Comment on The mother ship is calling by Maggie

Maggie — Tue, 15 May 2012 20:58:54 +0000

Are there options on which mother ship to go to and have you been called yet?