1. I am thinking about starting a (closed) online community of women who want to talk about topics like sex (and, well, okay, all I can think about at this point that I couldn’t carefully dance around in a public way is sex) in a marriage-supportive environment. Wow, that sounded… like marketing-speak. Seriously, keeping things interesting and working for both members of a marriage is tough and I want to talk about it, but (crazy, I know) not in public. Would you be interested? Invite only and we’d extend invites to friends-of-friends without asking. If we end up with a troll (would we? Nah) we’d shut the whole shebang down.
2. I think I’m failing at work. I’ve been there 8 months, know what needs to be done (have known it since I started), am not making the progress I expect. Spent a whiny and tearful few minutes chatting with my husband, took a hot bath, watched mindless TV. Now I need to decide what to do: big team, lots of people involved, tons of work, not enough people, frustrating bosses, etc, etc. Is this interesting to you? If it is, I’ll think in public here. If it’s not, I’ll keep my whininess in my head.